Monthly Archives: April 2017

The facade and passing time

There will be time, there will be time To prepare a face to meet the faces that you meet; There will be time to murder and create, And time for all the works and days of hands That lift and … Continue reading

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Dday

Tomorrow is the two year mark of my Dday–my Dday antiversary.  To say that it does not bring up a lot of feelings and insecurities would be a lie.  I have had a rough week and have had some triggers. … Continue reading

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Riding the roller coaster–grief, anxiety and fear (Oh my!)

One of the most painful and difficult parts of healing from infidelity, is riding the roller coaster of emotions.  One minute, I feel really good–maybe even joyful–the next, I’m sobbing in the bathroom.  I often feel crazy.  Like many of … Continue reading

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I am ENOUGH.

Do you speak those words to yourself?  Stand in front of your mirror and say them out loud over and over.  My gosh, I hope you believe them.  In the midst of all of this, I think we lose that … Continue reading

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Before and After

Isn’t that how we see it?  It’s like we are in this alternate reality.  Before the affair and then after.  Before–when our lives seemed what we thought was normal.  When we thought our significant others loved us and would never … Continue reading

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Just click your heels together three times

Trigger.  For those of us who have experienced the trauma of infidelity (and make no mistake, this IS a trauma of the deepest kind), the word “trigger” now has a new meaning.  It means that the smallest of things can … Continue reading

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I wish I’d known what to look for…

It’s funny how when you talk to others who have been betrayed, you notice that there are many of the same characteristics in those who have cheated.  When I first started noticing red flags, I was SURE he would not … Continue reading

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